Sunday, May 8, 2016

It's Mother's Day 2016

This is my first Mother's Day without my own Mom still here on earth. She's lived across the country from me for the majority of my life - but she was only a phone call away.
Last year, I was able to visit her in May. It was my last week of Leave from the kidney donation. She had been sick off and on and I know she worried about the kidney donation and I wanted her to see me in person. See that I was fine.
Sitting on the porch - the only photo I took on the trip.
It was a fun visit - short but filled with a lot of errands that her assisted living sent me on. It was hard for her to get in and out of a car, so I don't think we went anywhere together - not that I can remember.
I bought her some nice white velcro tennis shoes, I bought new sheets for the hospital bed.
I am so grateful that I could make that trip.
I had hopes of returning in August. But she passed away 6/29 at 91 years old.
Having her in my life for so long is a blessing I'm grateful for. But I miss her terribly, especially on Mother's Day.
I think she'd be laughing if I could tell her about my fitbit and trying to reach all the goals. And she'd worry that I'm getting too skinny - even without seeing me!
This week, I added biking back into the mix. I biked to work on Wed and Thursday - and even with doing squats and all this walking, the hills were difficult!
Yesterday, I biked to the Farmer's Market - I had all the time in the world - my favorite kind of day off.
I spoiled myself on Mother's Day weekend too! (Dave wasn't there to stop me! He had to do a funeral)
I bought: a "rag rug", a new tiny purse to replace the African one that is getting thread-bare, 4 tomato starts (I hope I don't kill them), 3 felt-board sets, 1 tile (that I'm sure my kids would have purchased for me had they seen it) that says: "Best Freaking Mom Ever" And some asparagus for dinner!


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